

Will and I just finished reading a Berenstein Bears book called Goofy Goony Guy which kind of reminded us of our own little goofy guy, Jasper.
He is a true sixteen month old now who has life by the horns as he runs (never walks) through it. We repeat a lot of things over and over whether it is walking up and down hills, stairs, ramps, or slides. He likes to practice over and over until he is satisfied with the result and he particularly likes to repetitively copy his brother. This morning Will accidentally knocked over his orange juice. We wiped it up and then when I turned towards Jasper he grinned at me, looked down at his milk and poured it out onto the table! Will has a very difficult job as the older brother because everything he does is good in Jasper's eyes. He has to stay in constant check!
This can be hard to do when you have a goofy goony brother like Jasper. Sometimes it is hard not to laugh at the things he does.
He still does the squiggle dance on the floor and he also loves to lift up people's shirts to tickle them. He knows when he gets a hold of something that we would prefer he not handle because he grins widely and holds tighter to it. His items of choice lately would be Will's Star Wars toothbrush or my knitting needles. He also enjoys crossing streets over and over or going up and down stairs one at a time. He often stops at the curb or at the stair landing to wait for a hand but not always. It is not unlikely to have a little guy race off across the street by himself so we have to keep a close eye on him.
We really don't have many words these days. Jasper is quite clear with his body language, sign language and bestial grunts. He generally gets across his needs and wants quite clearly.
But he is a boys boy for sure. He does innumerable physical feats almost like a gross motor explosion. His explosion into language is on the backburner it seems.
I say that but within the same vein I see aspects of tender sweetness that reminds me so much of Will. Jasper loves to help around the house. He picks things up and tries to assure that the floor is swept clean of everything even if it means putting said objects into any kind of receptacle he can find. I find things in laundry bins and garbage cans and baskets all over the house. While I fold the laundry into piles, Jasper is fervently picking up laundry out of the pile and stuffing it back into the laundry baskets. He loves to get out his dishes and prepare for a meal and he will also clear his dishes from the table. He enjoys wiping his face with a napkin and using a soft cloth to wipe up the table or the floor. We sweep, wash windows, and garden together. Jasper has really attached to the idea of taking large rocks from neighbors gardens and carrying them over to our garden. He likes to do Big.Heavy.Tasks.
He is doing wonderfully with the toilet. His signal lately has been to grab his crotch and make his "hmmm" sound. Our next step is to start up with the routines of using toilets on the go. As of now he only uses his potty chair reliably.
One years old is still the cutest age in my book and getting cuter everyday. It will be even better when he has some words to go along with the bright shiny happy personality that we see emerging.